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Susan Wolfenden posted a condolence
Monday, July 1, 2019
Its been 152 days since I had to kiss ur beautiful lips goodbye, since I've touched ur handsome face, since I've held ur strong hand, since I've listened to ur heartbeat! It's been 154 days since I've heard u say, "I love u, baby", since I've felt ur strong arms around me, since I've heard ur amazing laugh. It's been 152 days since I've had to make the most gut wrenching decision of my life. It's been 154 days since life as I knew it changed forever, since my whole world collapsed, since everything about me shattered. It's been 152 days, since u left n took my heart n soul with u, since the "Sue" that everyone knew went with you, since half of me was completely amputated, since my whole heart was completely ripped out! It's been 154 days since we had coffee 2gether, since we made plans 2gether, since we drove to work 2gether. It's been 152 since I've experienced the greatest, most unbearable pain I've ever known. It's been 154 days since my world stopped spinning FOREVER!
I go thru the motions of every day bc I have no other choice, bc I wasn't given a choice on losing you, my husband, my best friend, the love of my life, my whole entire universe. The world around me is moving, but I'm at a complete stand still, there will never be moving forward or moving on for me, heartbroken and in constant unbearable pain is my new normal! Saying I miss you is a huge understatement, it doesn't even begin to cover what I'm feeling. I miss you every second of every minute of every hour of every day of every week of every month that you've been gone. That's something that will never change, baby. I love u so so much. You'll FOREVER be my ALWAYS. Until we're together again, walking hand in hand, on our beach, Fly high with the Angels, my love and continue to watch over your Princess and I. I'll love u forever and I'll miss you always!!!
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Susan Wolfenden posted a symbolic gesture
Tuesday, March 26, 2019
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Susan Wolfenden lit a candle
Tuesday, March 26, 2019
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You'll FOREVER be my ALWAYS.
I'll love you forever and and I'll miss you always.
Rest in peace, my love, until we're together again, Fly high with the Angels and continue to watch over me and your Princess!
I love you until my very last breath and beyond, Baby!
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Susan Wolfenden posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 26, 2019
It's been 55 days since you went away. I still keep expecting you to walk thru the door, I'm waiting for you to come home. I feel like pieces of my broken heart are being ripped from my body, I miss you more than I can bear. This is the most horrific pain I've ever experienced, this isn't like a surgery, u know ur in pain, the Dr gives you medicine, there is no medicine to ease this pain, there is no medicine to heal my broken heart, my broken mind, my broken soul. You were taken away so suddenly n unexpectedly. I'll never b able to heal or come to terms with you being gone. You are and always will be the love of my life. I've missed you every second of every minute of every hour of every day of every week since you've been gone. That will NEVER change. You're my best friend. You had so much life left to live. I think about all the plans we had for this spring n summer, all of the events we had plans to go to, some of which we had already bought tickets for, some of which we have already missed, our 2 trips to AC, for my bday n the show the following wknd, the flower show, drag queen bingo, different dinners, so so many things and it's only going to hurt more and more as the season rolls in bc we were always doing something last year n planned on doing so so much more this year.
I never wanted to know what life would be like without you, unfortunately, Life as I knew it is gone FOREVER. You are my whole heart and my entire soul and I am completely broken without you.
Ronnie, you will FOREVER be my ALWAYS. Until we're together again, walking hand in hand, on our beach, Fly high with the Angels and continue to watch over me and your Princess! I'll love you forever and I'll miss you always, baby!
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Sue Wolfenden uploaded photo(s)
Monday, March 4, 2019
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I love you so much baby, til my very last breath
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Sue Wolfenden uploaded photo(s)
Monday, March 4, 2019
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LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this man
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Sue Wolfenden uploaded photo(s)
Monday, March 4, 2019
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My whole heart and soul!
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Sue Wolfenden uploaded photo(s)
Monday, March 4, 2019
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4th of July, on Wildwood beach, watching the fireworks, wrapped up tight in his arms, as usual, my safest place in the whole world!!
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Sue Wolfenden uploaded photo(s)
Friday, February 22, 2019
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I love you always baby
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Sue Wolfenden uploaded photo(s)
Friday, February 22, 2019
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Look how happy we are! I'd literally cut off both my arms just to have 5 more mins looking at them beautiful blue eyes or kissing that beautiful smile! I'll miss you forever baby!
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Sue Wolfenden uploaded photo(s)
Friday, February 22, 2019
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No matter how big she got Dad loved to put her on his shoulders either to put an angel on the Christmas tree or to try and reach the moon!
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Sue Wolfenden uploaded photo(s)
Friday, February 22, 2019
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Our trip to NY, at Chelsea Pier.
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Sue Wolfenden uploaded photo(s)
Friday, February 22, 2019
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Fooling around on the beach
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Sue Wolfenden uploaded photo(s)
Friday, February 22, 2019
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Ronnie's 45th birthday. I took him to the arcade, Mack's for slices and dairy Queen for a vanilla cone! I asked him for 2 wks B4 what he wanted to do, I told him anything u want, anywhere u want to eat, lol, This is what he picked... I love that this was what he wanted to do 2gether!! We had the absolute best time!
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Sue Wolfenden uploaded photo(s)
Friday, February 22, 2019
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Dad and his princess
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Heather posted a condolence
Friday, February 22, 2019
I honestly have no idea where to begin, I never thought I would have to be apart of this world without you. As far back in my life that I can remeber you have always protected, encouraged and truly accepted and loved me for me. I never had to wear a fake smile or say something I didn't mean with you. You are going to be missed forever but I will always speak you name and smile because you have left me so many amazing memories to hold on to. I can not say you are in a better place because I don't believe the world is better with out you!! But I am so proud to have always called you my big brother!!! All my heart always forever Het ❤
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Celine lit a candle
Friday, February 22, 2019
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Devon posted a condolence
Friday, February 22, 2019
I could talk about all the good things Ronnie did, or the impact he had on every single person he came in contact with but I would need a book. From the minute I met Ronnie him and his wife treated me as one of their own. I could never thank him enough for showing me the type of love he did at the point in my life where i was so lost and confused. He was like a father to me. I knew if i needed something, Ronnie would be there. No matter what time, no matter where I was, he would be there. He went above and beyond for his family and was hands down one of the best men I’ve ever had the honor of knowing. Not sure why the world works the way that it does, or why horrible things happen to such good deserving people. But i do know I’ll never forget the impact Ronnie had on me personally and I’ll always be there to make sure his princess is okay. Until we meet again fly high Ronnie. Heaven doesn’t know how lucky they are to have you♥️
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kelsey lit a candle
Friday, February 22, 2019
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kelsey posted a condolence
Friday, February 22, 2019
Ronnie was such a great guy. You would only have to meet him for five minutes to know that. He’d do ANYTHING, and i mean ANYTHING in his power to make his wife and princess happy. Regardless of how he knew you, if you needed him he was there. You could say he is a hero to many MANY people. Those who think other wise didn’t know him. I know for a fact whatever life is after this, he is watching over Sue and Celine every single day. They will forever have their Guardian Angel. Ronnie will forever be missed and NEVER forgotten. Thank you for always treating me like family. You were truly an amazing person and you were taken way too soon. May you rest in peace.
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Breana posted a condolence
Friday, February 22, 2019
Ronnie was nothing like any other person you meet, he was a kind-hearted, down to earth person. I am lucky enough to say that I have experienced his kind heart first hand and he made an impact on my life as well as any one who has ever met him. I can say for sure that Ronnies love for his wife Sue and his princess Celine was endless. Ronnie will forever have a place in my heart, but more importantly is missed by many ❤
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Sue Wolfenden posted a condolence
Friday, February 22, 2019
Ronnie, it has been 24 days since you left YOUR princess and I. It's been 26 days since we've heard your voice. I'm so happy that the very last words I heard you say were, "I love u" & that they were the very last thing you heard me say! Its always been you and I against the world, now it appears it's going to be YOUR princess and I against protecting your LEGACY!!
You and I have really been through hell and back in the last 20 plus years, as I'm sure every couple who has not only, been 2gether for over 20 years, but who were actually in love with each other for 20 years! There have been plenty of things that should have split us up thru-out the years, they're have even been ppl who have tried to separate us! Especially over the last 4 years, it seemed every where we turned, someone or something was trying to tear us down! But, nope, didn't happen, it only made us 1000 times stronger! Especially the last year!! The last year has been amazing! We did EVERYTHING together! We were literally 2gether almost 24/7. Lol, I'm sure that would drive most couples insane, but not us, we absolutely LOVED LOVED LOVED being 2gether! We worked together every day, we got to travel to different places to set up the Art shows 2gether, we got ready for all the parades 2gether, and oh boy, I do mean ALL, lol, since we probably did like 25-30 from Memorial parade to the umpteen Christmas parades, we did the gate at the concerts every Sunday night, we went to the beach almost every day after work, especially Fri nites when we would drive down on the Wildwood beach, get out of the truck, ud wrap ur arms around me and we'd watch the fireworks, EVERY Fri night! We took so, so many pictures together this summer, which I'm so thankful for! We really were hardly ever apart. If someone saw me they knew u weren't far behind and vice versa. Lol, ppl used to laugh and how cute we were bc we constantly were finishing each other's sentences. We would just shrug n say it's bc we really are the other half of each other, not only were our hearts connected but our brains were too. Of all the things we've done and all the places we've traveled this year, the thing I'm going to miss the absolute most is our middle of the night talks. We really were best friends! Lol, I was thinking about when you would send me stuff on messenger, the "Send to all ur Bros" stuff, which usually was a half naked chic and I'd say, "Ronnie, lol, can't u read, it says send to all ur Bros" and ur response was, "Baby, u are 1 of my Bros, ur not just my wife, ur my best friend and if I can't send u pictures of half naked women, who can I send the to?" I couldn't do anything but laugh, u were just too much sometimes, but I loved every single bit of it!
While some ppl are full of regrets right now, the handful of ppl who meant the world to u, the ppl who never broke your heart, those ppl have NONE, and if they do have any regrets, it's more time, or about the things we had planned to do this summer. I, personally have 2 and only 2 regrets. 1- I regret that u
broke ur pinky promise and I didn't get my forever with you and 2- our vows renewal this summer. We have been together, this past Dec, for 20 years and married, this past Nov, for 17 years. We had planned to renew our vows this summer, on the beach, with just the ppl that truly loved us, unconditionally, no matter what! Lol, I think you were more excited than I was. I'm going to really miss the excited in your voice when you talked about what this summer was going to bring, the beautiful smile and the sparkle in your eyes that went along with it.
Baby, I love you always and I'll miss you forever. Until we're together again, walking hand in hand, on our beach continue to fly high with the angels and watch over your Princess and I. We love you until our last breath!
On a side note, to anyone who left a small piece or 2 of Ronnie's heart broken thru-out the years n still when he died, and who have some major regrets. I feel very sorry for you, truly I do. Especially since he would be so disappointed in you, in the way you acted, in the way you treated Celine and I after he passed away, in the way you continuously disrespect him with your sideways compliments of him! He loved you bc of who you were to him, but he was very, very disappointed in the type of ppl you became, so easily influenced by others. Your actions, 28 mins after his passing, proved, without a shadow of a doubt, that, unfortunately, you have absolutely no part of him or his heart in you.
Let me leave you with 2 things...
1. "Blood makes us related, it DOES NOT make us family." Family is the ppl you choose to have in your inner circle, who you love and who love you, COMPLETELY and UNCONDITIONALLY!
And 2, and I learned this from my grandmother, who was absolutely the most amazing woman ever to walk this Earth...."If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all" So maybe, you just keep going on with your life as you have since you've last spoken to him almost 20 months ago, continue on as tho he never existing to, as we have learned to do.
Oh and 1 more thing. Every single thing we did for MY HUSBAND after he passed away was, exactly to a "T" how he said he wanted things, from his cremation, his memorial, his obituary, who was welcomed at hospital, which I think was his last attempt of healing the 2 lil cracks left in his heart, to who was welcomed at his memorial. I was not being malicious in any way, I was simply honoring my husband's last wishes. And since him and I recently, the week B4 he passed, had a conversation, I knew exactly the how, the what, the who and the where of it all. So please stop with your evil, pettiness and leave the disrespectful comments in your own heart. Bc this man, this amazing, wonderful, caring, big-hearted man, absolutely did not and does not deserve it!!
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Susan Wolfenden posted a symbolic gesture
Wednesday, February 20, 2019
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Susan Wolfenden lit a candle
Wednesday, February 20, 2019
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Until we're together again, Baby, walking together, hand in hand, on Diamond Beach, fly high with the Angels and continue to watch over me and your Princess. I love you always and I'll miss you forever!
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Susan Wolfenden posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 20, 2019
I'm rewriting this bc the 1st one I wrote on Mon Feb 4th, is not here.
Ronnie, you weren't just my husband, you were so so much more. You were my best friend, my back bone, my protector, my biggest supporter and critic, the love of my life, my heart and soul, literally my other half. My whole world has completely crashed. I don't even know where to begin to start trying to "gorilla glue", (as u would say, "just get the gorilla glue lol), it back 2gether. You've never broken a "Pinky Promise" to me or to anyone else for that matter, that was until Wed, January 30th, 2019 @ 2:52pm, when you took ur final breath, when ur heart beat for it's final time, that is when you broke ur very 1st Pinky Promise to me! You promised me FOREVER, you promised me we'd grow old and gray 2gether, put Ben-Gay on each other, go sit in our rocking chairs on the porch and watch our grandbabies play! You broke ur promise, you only gave me a little over 20 years!!
The hardest thing I've ever had to do, was to let you go, to sign your DNR, I truly thought that would kill me, to watch u take ur last breath and feel ur heart beat against my hand for the last time.
I'm so thankful that you passed away very peacefully and in absolutely no pain, surrounded by the family and friends, that mattered to you the most, those who loved you COMPLETELY and UNCONDITIONALLY and who you loved the absolute most in this world.
I feel like half of me has been amputated, except they took my whole entire, broken heart. Ronnie, you ARE the love of my life, and ALWAYS will be. This will never change! I have no idea what I'm going to do without you. This pain is completely unbearable! But I know, wherever you are right now, your main concern, besides me, is your Princess and making sure she's ok. So that's what I'm going to do, be there for your Princess, making sure she's ok, bc that's exactly what you'd expect me to do for you!! She was always your very 1st priority in life and knowing you the way I do, that hasn't changed since your gone!
We had your memorial on Sat and it was absolutely beautiful. Bc of our recent conversation the week B4 u passed away, it was exactly what you wanted, with exactly who you wanted there. We were completely overwhelmed, as you would have been, with all of the amazingly beautiful, kind words and memories that everyone shared. You received an award that is very, very rare to get if ur not military! And WOW, the amount of ppl that came was overwhelming! Some traveled hrs n hrs, some took the buses from Philly, lots of ppl drove from Philly. So many ppl took time out of their day to come and pay their respects to you, the Mayor, State Commander of SAL, a Freeholder, a Congressman, and many more!!! I really hope in life you knew, how loved, how appreciated and most of all, how respected you truly were!!!
Ronnie, you touched so many ppls lives, on so many levels, you are going to be missed by all, more than any words could ever express!
Baby, I don't know what I'll do without my best friend and other half. I'll love you ALWAYS and I'll miss you FOREVER!
Until we're together again, walking hand in hand, on Diamond Beach, Fly high with the angels, my love, and continue to watch over me and your princess!
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Celine posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 20, 2019
MY dad will forever be the greatest man I have ever known and he has changed my life for the better. The only fault he had in life was being too nice to those who did not deserve it. I am so lucky to have had over 20 years with him. Even though I am grown now I always knew I could count on him for anything, whether it be to come look at a car or just to listen to any of my problems he was always there. Despite people trying to knock him down he always found a way to look on the bright side. He sure has set the bar high for any man in my life. No one I will ever meet will have a heart as big as his. I will miss him more than I could ever describe.
I love you more dad, don’t let the bed bugs bite.
Your Princess
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Tuesday, February 5, 2019
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